My ex moved on so fast. How can I overcome the pain?

You both are on polar opposites of the scale.

So, don't try to compete with them.

On their side, there has been a process of emotionally and mentally checking out while you were still together and while you were under the impression that everything is cool.

I think that being gay is wrong, but I treat gay people respectfully like any other person. Is it homophobic? Or offensive in any kind of way? Aren’t disagreement and discrimination two different things?

Simply put, because they have been prepared and you weren't.

This is why comparing yourself to them in terms of the healing process isn't going to help you in any way, shape or form.

What they do doesn't matter and it's completely irrelevant to your healing process, though it’s valid to hate and judge them harshly for leaving the way they did.

Does the U.S military really prosecute military staff for cheating on their spouse, or do they close one eye if the cheating does not involve other military personnel since adultery is fairly common? Adultery is illegal in U.S military

Instead, focus on taking care of, solving and healing what you are experiencing right now.

And during this process, they either started seeing someone new who they planned to secure as their rebound option or were busy creating their post-breakup plan.

This happened long or shortly before they physically left.

Do individuals with borderline personality disorder have awareness of their actions or do they believe their behavior is normal?

This is why you can't expect them to feel anything close to what you're feeling right now, because you and them are on a completely different stage in the healing process.

I.e. you thought that you had the perfect deal whereas they had already made up their mind and just weren't as emotionally invested in it as you were.

My ex moved on so fast. How can I overcome the pain?

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